What happened?
At the altar, you said, “I do,” to a wonderful human you couldn’t love more than you did then. And now that same person is entirely different.
They may be angry or lashing out, or you may feel anger and resentment. Everything feels like something you don’t recognize. It’s confusing, disorienting, and there are so many pieces to manage.
There are many things to consider – lawyers, court, finances, kids, custody, extended family, and your feelings. You feel crushed by the loss, betrayal, anger, and sadness. Knowing how to keep moving forward is hard when it is overwhelming in all directions.
You feel like someone pulled the rug from under you, making you want space to breathe and get clarity. The amount of change and transition is more significant than you thought, and you want support now.
Imagine receiving support for the way you feel.
Everyone has an opinion about your situation based on their feelings. You aren’t sure what’s up or down or what is the next right thing to do.
Getting help and support for your feelings and figuring out what you want and need during this difficult time is a gift for yourself, a calm place in the storm.
Imagine having time set aside each week to say anything on your mind; gain ways to deal with your fear, sadness, and confusion; and learn techniques for moving forward that feel good and resonate with the way you want to walk through this.
Having that time is “Priceless.”
Divorce is NOT a failure.
You might think, “I feel like I failed.” Feeling like this is one way to look at divorce.
Coming to therapy and getting the support you need can shape how you view this time in your life and how everyone involved remembers it, including you.
Divorce happens and does not have to feel like a failure. It can ultimately be a challenging time that leads to growth and improvement in many areas. Let the time with me be the safe space to share where you have nonjudgmental and compassionate support. You will learn the life-altering techniques related to having a good, successful, and amicable divorce when life feels uncertain.
Are you ready to give yourself the gift of calm in the storm? Reach out today by calling or emailing me.